TOP 10 "male stimuli"
We conducted a survey and found out what situations put our husbands out of patience. Family psychotherapist Inna Khamitova commented on the behavior of both sides.
- It infuriates me when my wife reads my mail and checks my mobile. “Men see this desire to control as the wife’s desire to dominate the couple.
- After a quarrel, she collects things and leaves for her mother. Instead of finding out the relationship, she takes the dirty linen out of the family. This complicates the relationship of the son-in-law with the mother-in-law, who, naturally, more often takes the side of her daughter.
- When my wife is pouting, I don’t understand what to do, and I’m terribly angry. Boys are traditionally raised in such a way that it is impossible to cry and express their emotions, therefore, when a man sees female experiences, he falls into a stupor, feeling his helplessness. Partners must take a step towards each other.
- I’m ready to explode when she criticizes my parents ... Think about it, why put your loved one in front of the need: which one of the closest people to choose? ”
- It offends me when she remarks to me in the presence of other people, especially my parents. When a wife criticizes her husband with friends and parents, this infringes on his pride. Criticizing your husband in the presence of parents whose opinion is so important to him, you put him in an awkward position.
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- In a cafe, she always climbs into my plate: “Give me a try ...” The man is annoyed that the woman unceremoniously violates the boundaries of his personal space. And the woman who encroaches on the contents of the partner’s plate seems to be trying to deprive him of this joy.
- I can’t stand her fits of jealousy, especially when it happens out of the blue. I went with colleagues to drink beer after work - in the evening there will certainly be a scandal!
- I do not like when she scolds a child with me. “In this situation, a man takes offense at his wife, because he, unaware of this, sees such moments in the child ... himself. And therefore, it is so keen on the criticism that mom brings down on children. ”
- Our road trips turn into hell, especially when I'm driving. My wife is constantly trying to control and criticize at the same time my driving style, as well as the route that I chose.
- I am outraged when my wife shifts or removes my personal belongings during the general cleaning of the apartment! Do not change the usual location of his things. Often men consider, for example, their gadgets as an extension of themselves, so they react so painfully to the consequences of spring cleaning.
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